I'm attracted to your mind

When two people meet--lets keep it real--you are either attracted to them or not. Attraction can arise, with the help of some alcohol or a glimpse of cleavage or a thong sighting, and lips might kiss solely out of curiosity but can a relationship come out of it? If you are not looking for a relationship and you are not looking at the person you are currently seeing like that , what are the chances that you would eventually see them as someone you would want to be with?

Which leads me into my blog. . . .

I've been lucky enough to say I do not have a problem talking to a random stranger, nor a hot girl at the bar, or even striking up a convo out of seemingly nothing into a date. I can confidently say I am not shy, do not hide things, am down to earth and think all around I am a "good catch". . . . but can a guy like myself be damaged goods? A CD you burn, or download to share with your friends once a while?

I've been attracted to girls for their breast, ass, face, hair, legs, slammin' body, beautiful eyes, gorgeous hair, silky skin, and luscious lips. I wonder what they saw in me. . . Well lets be honest, you need to be attracted to someone, somehow, to get passed "hello my name is". I wonder how would it be if I were blind. Have I been looking for love in all the wrong places? well not in the wrong places, but for the wrong reasons?

DUH HELLOOOO!!!!

What does it feel like to actually enjoy the conversation? To play off of each other with witty comments and flirtatious remarks. To miss that person because the person you are currently with. . . just isn't cutting it. Now a days is this too unobtainable, not practical? Women like men just want to have fun, not settle down nor be honest with how many people they are sleeping with, or just "not ready", whatever that means.

Believe me when I tell you, sex is not everything. . . . jeez. . did I really just type that?! WoW. Well its not , sex only last for so long, literally and figuratively. After its all done and over with unless you pay her, chances are you are going to have to talk to her. Before and after.

So before you get into another "Plastic Bottle Relationship" think about after sex, whats really there? If you can't answer that, chances are you shouldn't have sex yet.

p.S. I tried my best to proof read.